Worry is not always there to prepare you; sometimes the brain mistakes mistakes for facts. Here is what keeps the anxiety cycle turning and how to stop it.

Anxiety and stress

Why the mind gets stuck in worry: a practical guide to anxiety

Worry is not always there to prepare you; sometimes the brain mistakes mistakes for facts. Here is what keeps the anxiety cycle turning and how to stop it.

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Nearly every day there is something to worry about: an unanswered message, a decision already made, a future you cannot see. The trouble starts when these ordinary worries become, instead of one worry and then release, a closed loop that leaves the mind fresher than before.

How the anxiety cycle actually works

The brain is built to protect us, and one of its tools is this alarm system. The problem is not that the system works; the problem is that with no real danger present, it never switches off. The result is a repeating cycle: a worrying thought arrives, the body releases energy, you register danger, and instead of solving the problem you retreat to the safer part of the mind.
The trouble with the safe part is that it looks calm but does not solve the worry; it only postpones it. You get into the habit of thinking about the problem, and thinking takes the place of acting. That is exactly the point at which people describe themselves as having no willpower, when in fact the brain is protecting them in its own way.

Three things that genuinely help

Separate it

Ask: which part of this thought is under my control, and which is not?

Signal the body first

Five minutes of slow breathing or a brisk walk, before you answer anything.

Give it a time

Once a week, a set twenty minutes to worry on purpose.

What you can try tomorrow

Put a small notebook beside you today. Each time worry arrives, write one sentence: 'right now I am worried about exactly what?' Writing alone creates distance. Then write two questions below it: 'what will I be doing in twenty minutes?' and 'what is the smallest thing I can do right now?'
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In short

Worry is not an illness; it is a habit the brain built to protect us. What therapy does is not switch the system off but teach us when to listen to it and when to decide for ourselves again.

«I thought I could never speak in that room. Then I realised I do not have to be perfect — I only have to say what I think, even if I say it badly.»

Niloufar Rostami
Clinical psychologist
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Written by Niloufar Rostami

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Niloufar Rostami

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Anxiety and stress

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